Attraction Overrides Human Behavior
When the emotion of attraction is triggered, the emotional part of our brain takes over and overrides our behavior in order to facilitate the creation of healthy and sustainable offspring. This love drive is not something that we have control over and there is nothing we can do about it. The mechanism of attraction evolved into humans by taking over mind and body long enough to make sure that mating takes place with good genes (with the opposite gender archetype). Gender archetypes are built into the hardware of our brains.